The Happiness Medicine: Your Health and Wealth Can Increase with Happiness

Oct 25, 2023 โ€ข 35 Min Video
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Justin Cohen Shares the Secrets to Being Healthier by Being Happier

The key idea of the video is that increasing our baseline level of happiness through gratitude, positive actions, and personal responsibility leads to overall well-being and success in various areas of life.

The Power of Internal Happiness

  • ๐Ÿค” Happiness is not solely dependent on external events or achievements, but can be cultivated internally, challenging the common belief that happiness is only experienced when things go well.
  • ๐Ÿ˜„ Increasing your baseline of happiness is more effective than winning the lottery in sustaining long-term happiness.
  • ๐Ÿ‘‘ Obstacles in our lives define and enable us to grow, just like how David's battle with Goliath led him to become King.
  • ๐ŸŒŸ Happiness is not dependent on external circumstances like bank balance, but on finding the opportunity and growth in challenging situations.
  • ๐Ÿ˜Œ Being fully present in the moment, whether through activities like painting or engaging in tasks, can bring about a state of flow and increase happiness.
  • ๐Ÿง  The brain prioritizes survival over happiness, constantly seeking to solve problems, even in a world with unprecedented comforts and safety.
  • ๐Ÿ˜Š Taking time to focus on gratitude and appreciation can lead to tremendous benefits in personal life, family, and beyond.

Happiness and Success in Relationships and Work

  • ๐Ÿ’ผ Happy companies have a higher return on investment, with employees who are more productive, accurate, and successful in sales.
  • ๐Ÿง  The technology of habit creation is crucial for transforming behavior and achieving long-term change, as simply wanting to do something is not enough.
  • ๐Ÿ˜Š Bringing more happiness into work can lead to increased health and wealth, as happy employees are more productive and satisfied.
  • ๐ŸŒŸ Positivity and actively appreciating others can cultivate happiness and success, while negativity and pessimism hinder both.
  • ๐Ÿ’ฐ Having warm and loving relationships can increase your income by $120,000 per year and make you happier, with a strong correlation of 0.7.
  • โš ๏ธ Major stressors in life, such as divorce or bankruptcy, can increase the chances of dying by 30%, but being someone who supports and uplifts others can reduce this risk to zero, thanks to oxytocin's anti-inflammatory properties.

Time Stamps

  • 00:00 ๐ŸŒŸ Increasing our baseline level of happiness is key to sustaining happiness regardless of external events, and practicing gratitude daily can have a greater impact on happiness than winning the lottery.
    • Happiness is tied to wellness and can lead to both health and wealth, and the speaker discusses the science of happiness and how it can be achieved.
    • Positive events like promotions or meeting someone special can temporarily boost happiness, but the effects only last for about three to four months before returning to baseline.
    • Increasing our baseline level of happiness is key to sustaining happiness regardless of external events, and research shows that happiness actually leads to success in various aspects of life, including business.
    • Increasing your baseline of happiness is more effective than winning the lottery, as we tend to get desensitized to the things we have and go back to our baseline level of happiness.
    • Focusing on specific moments of gratitude and consistently practicing gratitude can boost happiness by 20% and have a greater impact than winning the lottery.
    • To sustainably boost happiness, it is important to make gratitude a daily habit rather than a one-time occurrence, as creating habits is not as simple as having the intention to do something.
  • 07:14 ๐ŸŒŸ Focusing on simple actions like exercise, reducing spending, and prioritizing harmony can lead to success in health, wealth, and relationships, while appreciation and positivity improve emotional well-being and productivity, challenges can be opportunities for growth, and tracking happiness helps identify what brings happiness.
    • To achieve success in various aspects of life, such as health, wealth, and relationships, one must focus on simple actions like exercising, eating less, reducing spending, getting out of debt, saving and investing, and prioritizing harmony over being right.
    • Bringing happiness into work can lead to improved health, wealth, and productivity, with appreciation being a powerful way to boost happiness.
    • Appreciation and positivity are key elements that can improve emotional well-being, mental focus, and overall happiness, leading to increased accuracy and success in work and relationships.
    • Challenges in life can be seen as opportunities for growth and learning, just like how David's battle with Goliath led him to become king.
    • Financial losses can be an opportunity to improve money management skills and create wealth by bringing more value into the world.
    • Positivity and personal responsibility are key to prioritizing happiness, and tracking your happiness can help identify what makes you happy and what doesn't.
  • 16:23 ๐ŸŒŸ Being fully present in the moment leads to greater happiness, while constantly thinking about something else decreases happiness; despite challenges, our lives are better than our ancestors' due to advancements like Netflix and Zoom.
    • Being fully present in the moment, whether through activities like painting or meditation, leads to greater happiness and flow, while constantly thinking about something else decreases happiness.
    • Our brains have a negativity bias and are constantly focused on solving problems, even though we live in a time of unprecedented comfort and safety.
    • Childhood mortality and poverty have decreased, and despite the current epidemic, the speaker suggests that our ancestors would view our lives as heavenly due to advancements like Netflix and Zoom.
  • 19:00 ๐ŸŒŸ Recognize that happiness is a choice, accept negative emotions but be aware of how anxiety and depression can hinder your potential, take personal responsibility for your happiness by changing behavior and seeking help when needed.
    • Happiness is a choice and it's important to accept that negative emotions have their place in life, but anxiety and depression can be problematic.
    • Fear is a response to a real threat, while anxiety is a response to perceived threats, which can become problematic when it holds you back from fulfilling your potential.
    • Overthinking and excessive worrying can lead to anxiety and depression, which can negatively impact our mental health.
    • Take personal responsibility for your happiness by recognizing that you can change your behavior and thoughts, seeking help when needed, and taking action instead of accepting things as they are.
  • 23:06 ๐Ÿ“ Taking personal responsibility for our actions and choices leads to positive outcomes and allows us to learn and grow, while warm and connected relationships can increase income and overall well-being.
    • We don't choose everything that happens to us, such as car accidents or getting sick with COVID-19, but there may be some things that we did choose.
    • Taking personal responsibility for our actions and choices, rather than blaming ourselves or others, leads to positive outcomes and allows us to learn and grow from our mistakes.
    • The mental wealth workout is a five-minute daily practice that boosts happiness, calm, and resilience, and helps cultivate presence and mindfulness.
    • Having warm, loving, and connected relationships is a crucial factor for happiness and success, as it can increase your income by $120,000 per year and significantly improve your overall well-being.
  • 26:44 ๐ŸŒŸ Prioritizing happiness and giving to others boosts oxytocin, decreasing the chances of dying from stress; commit to one positive change to experience benefits in all areas of life; motivation and habit formation are crucial for sustaining healthy habits.
    • Giving to others and uplifting them not only feels good but also boosts oxytocin, a natural anti-inflammatory, which can decrease the chances of dying from major stressors.
    • Take action and commit to doing one thing differently, such as focusing on gratitude or prioritizing happiness, in order to experience tremendous benefits in your personal life, family, team, and beyond.
    • Motivation and habit formation are key to sustaining healthy habits, as the pleasure and energy gained from regular exercise can provide the necessary motivation to stick with it.
    • Habits are initially uncomfortable and take about 30 days to become neurologically ingrained in the brain.
  • 30:31 ๐ŸŠโ€โ™€๏ธ Focus on long-term pleasure, not short-term pain, for an exhilarating life; motivation, habit formation, and technology are needed for transformation.
    • Justin Cohen goes on to share his excitement about staying in a beautiful hotel with a stunning pool and a tall building nearby, expressing their love for swimming and the sense of adventure it brings.
    • People are not using the pool because they find it inconvenient to change and swim.
    • Focus on the long-term pleasure rather than the short-term pain in order to have an exhilarating and adventurous life.
    • Motivation alone is not enough to bring about transformation; it requires the combination of motivation, habit formation, and technology to achieve personal, team, business, and global transformation.
  • 33:46 ๐Ÿ’ก Invest in your happiness because it leads to doing more good for yourself, your family, your team, and your community.
    • Justin Cohen then discusses the importance of happiness for health and wealth, and promotes their social media platforms where they share insights on success, happiness, emotional well-being, and dealing with tough situations, as well as a product called GLS year round, and mentions a previous episode on ice baths.
    • Invest in your happiness because it leads to doing more good for yourself, your family, your team, and your community.


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Roshan is the Founder and โ€œKuliโ€ of the Leaderonomics Group of companies. He believes that everyone can be a leader and "make a dent in the universe," in their own special ways. He is featured on TV, radio and numerous publications sharing the Science of Building Leaders and on leadership development. Follow him at www.roshanthiran.com

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